Leaning toward May 30

If I can get it where I want it. (That's what she said.) Likely problem with Plantations: toilet facilities. I think they set up port-a-potties, and that's a deal-breaker.

If you're wondering about how I landed at these dates (and I know it kept you up last night):

My cousin Erin is having her wedding March 28. So if I want family there, and if I want to go to the wedding myself (might not), both weekends on either side (March 21, April 4) are out. April 12 is Easter. I want my friend Blake there, and sheʼs got a wedding April 18. Sheʼs also having her own 45th bash May 9, which I will go to, and Karla is probably having her 40th on March 14, which I will also go to. This travel of mine and planning needs of theirs affect the timing too.

Plus if people are coming from Florida, and at least 2 are, it'll be a much nicer visit for them in May.